2020 has revealed a lot. We've seen a lot of people die and we've all lost relationships and friendships as well I'm sure. I know I have. For me these relationships aren't even ending in messy fallouts. I'm just taking note of how people are showing up. I'm listening to the things they are saying and not saying. I'm watching their actions versus their words and I'm giving them what all of it requires. Distance and silence. 2020 has been a major revealer in regards to people's true intentions and true regardings of us. PAY ATTENTION. Maya Angelou said, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them.". I'd like to add to that if I may that not only should you believe them, you should act accordingly. I know I am. Some people who were VIP at the Nina show are getting downgraded to general admittance and that's ok. Hold your sacred space for the people who show up in the ways you need them to, not just however they want. Hold on to your hats ya'll. 2020 ain't done yet!